Wednesday, April 30, 2025

Bring On the Woke

Win McNamee/Getty Images (January 6, 2022 - note the Q attire)

Megan, my daughter, recommended I watch the documentary Q: Into the Storm (available on MAX) to better understand MAGA people. She's not a QAnon supporter—far from it—but she thinks it's worth trying to understand how that belief system works. I agreed, curiosity piqued.

I made it through the first of six episodes… and then had to take a nap. Listening to the Q followers is disturbing on so many levels. The logic is twisted, the claims are wild, and yet it's all taken at face value by those who believe it.

Now, I’m not saying everyone who voted for 47 is into QAnon. Most probably aren’t. But many have unknowingly fallen into the same trap: accepting conspiracy theories and misinformation without question. It’s unsettling to watch people buy into something so flimsy—especially when the facts are usually just a Google search away.

Maybe it’s my early journalism background, but I always try to check sources. I get that people are busy, but don’t you want to be sure that what you’re saying—or voting for—is based on something real? Maybe that’s too much to ask these days. Maybe that’s what they call "woke."

Fine by me.

Bring on the woke.

Tuesday, April 29, 2025

Raids, Deportations, and Prayer Arrests: Is This America Now?

Imagine this:You're jolted awake in the early hours of last Thursday morning. It’s still dark outside. Agents pounding on your door identify themselves as FBI, ICE, and U.S. Marshals. You're an American citizen. You moved from New Jersey to Oklahoma City just two weeks ago.

They have a warrant — but the name on it isn’t yours. You’re not even given time to put on clothes. You and your three daughters are forced out onto the law
n in the rain, wearing only your underwear. The agents offer a “solution”: they’ll form a circle so your daughters can change — right there in front of them.

Once the search ends, they take your phones, laptops, and all your cash savings — even though it becomes clear that the individuals they were looking for no longer live there. The name on the warrant matches mail you’d seen addressed to the previous tenants. You’re not who they came for. But you're the ones who paid the price.

And this is not a one-off.

We have migrants — some allegedly linked to Venezuelan gangs — being flown to the CECOT mega-prison in El Salvador without due process. This includes women who were later returned to the U.S., since CECOT holds only men. According to a 60 Minutes investigation, most of the 238 prisoners sent from the U.S. have no criminal record and no proven gang affiliation.

We have U.S. citizen children being deported along with their mothers, without any legal effort to place them with their U.S. citizen fathers. One four-year-old child was actively undergoing cancer treatment when taken.

Just yesterday, three ministers were arrested on Capitol Hill — for praying.
Rev. William Barber, wearing a stole that read “Jesus was a poor man”, said:

“We weren’t cursing. We weren’t talking extraordinarily loud... They gave us three warnings and then they arrested us, saying our prayer was an illegal activity.”
(Source: News & Observer)

Is this what people had in mind when they voted for this?

A friend told me she doesn’t like what’s happening — but says we should “give 47 a chance.”

But what about the people who’ve already been harmed?
When does their chance come?
Who’s paying the price for this “chance” to play out?
And what kind of nation will we be left with when it’s over?


In better news: I’m thrilled about Canada’s election results! Some bright spots are still out there.




Monday, April 28, 2025

Dan Rather's 2 Cents

Today I am sharing Dan Rather's article. 

Saturday, April 26, 2025

Substack

 
(Substack logo)

Adding Karen Attiah to my list of people I admire.

Three days ago, she posted the following on Substack: “I’ll be offering an independent, public version of my Race, Media and International Affairs graduate course I taught at Columbia’s School of International and Public Affairs.”

To her surprise, within just two days, 2,500 students had signed up—with another 200 on a waiting list. Her expectation? 50 students.

I admire her passion for both learning and teaching, and her deep understanding that the desire to learn is alive and well in others.

I also listened to a powerful interview with Karen here: https://thelefthook.substack.com/p/why-is-talking-about-race-so-scary.


If you're not already subscribed (it's free), I highly recommend signing up—Substack has some truly high-quality content.

Here are the writers and publications I currently subscribe to—most are free, though I pay a small amount (usually $50–$70 per year) to support a handful of them:

  • Heather Cox Richardson – Letters From An American 

  • Robert Reich 

  • The Don Lemon Show

  • Civil Discourse with Joyce Vance

  • Seeing Things – Liza Donnelly (Cartoonist & political perspective)

  • The Jim Acosta Show

  • Joy's House – Joy Ann Reid

  • Steady – Dan Rather

  • The Contrarian

  • Lucid – Ruth Ben-Ghiat

  • The Left Hook – Wajahat Ali

  • The Borowitz Report (Surprised to learn Andy does serious as well as funny!)

  • Michael Cohen (A frequent guest on other shows—his past relationship with 47 gives him insight he’s more than willing to share)

  • The.Ink – Anand Giridharadas

  • Popular Information – Judd Legum

  • Invisible Threads – Kate Woodsome (She writes about the connection between mental health and democracy. She was part of the team that won the Pulitzer Prize for Public Service for our coverage of the January 6 insurrection in 2021.)

  • Adam Kinzinger

  • The Breakdown – Allison Gill

  • Mush Watch

  • Old Goats – Jonathan Alter

  • Karen Attiah

For fun, I follow two more:

  • Marjorie's Musings (my friend Marjorie Apple)

  • Serious Literary Author

Some of these creators post daily, and many are quick reads—or I’ll listen to a podcast while doing chores. Admittedly, I’m retired, so I usually spend three to four hours a day on Substack.


Friday, April 25, 2025

Colombia (YUM!)


Having a new baby has meant our family is just now getting to our March Yum box with snacks from Colombia. Of the seventeen snacks we tried, Caleb liked sixteen of them, Megan liked thirteen, Jeremy liked twelve, and Joe and I each liked eleven snacks, and Charlotte liked eight of the snacks.

Snacks that everyone liked included:

Colombina Brinky Galletas Con Crema Sabor a Limon which is a sandwich cookie with lemon flavored cream. Except in South America lemons are limes! The manufacturer, Colombina, is a zero-waste processing plant. In 2023, S & P’s Global Corporate Sustainability Assessment named Colombina as the 7th most sustainable food company in the world.

Gomitas Play Tortu Splash which are fruit-flavored turtle shaped gummies with strawberry flavored filling. The company chose the turtle shape to represent sea turtles which are one of many threatened species fighting to survive along Colombia’s Caribbean coast. No worries as there are a lot of preservation efforts underway to protect the sea turtles.

Bon Bon Bum Maracuya a Passion fruit flavored lollipop with bubblegum filling. Joe and I opted not to taste as there were only four lollipops. Colombina, the manufacturer of Brinky, also makes this lollipop. Introduced in the 1970’s it is still among the most favorite of candies in Colombia.

La Nina Toceinetas Limon or as we say in English – ‘bacon and lime-flavored snack with the consistency of a pork rind. Bacon is Colombia’s national food (bandeja paisa features a portion of fried pork belly alongside rice, beans, ground beef, chorizo, plantains, cornbread, avocado, fried egg, and lots of lime. Sign me up!). This snack is a small taste of bandeja paisa and, according to Yum, customers have always voted this the top Yum snack from Colombia.

Chewz Me Chew N’ Crunch Stix in flavors of watermelon, Blue Raspberry, and Strawberry are also manufactured by Colombina and were so popular with our family that Megan did a search to see if she could buy online. She found a package of thirty for $10 on Amazon. The kids asked if she would share with them. I THINK she said yes …

Colombiana la nuestra is a sweet fruity soda with hints of cream soda and bubblegum.

If you are ever interested in trying your own box or buying as a gift here is a link:  https://www.universalyums.com


Thursday, April 24, 2025

When Failure is the Plan

“Look, I’m fixing it!”— The 47 Administration

I’ve been thinking about an idea I haven’t seen anywhere in the mainstream media — or even in alternative places like Substack. Of course, I can’t read every article or watch every podcast out there, so maybe someone has brought it up. It just seems like such an obvious idea to me.

Here’s what I’ve noticed: Almost every legal case against the 47 regime is getting hit with temporary restraining orders (TROs). That got me thinking — maybe 47 and Musk knew they’d be blocked by the courts all along. Maybe they counted on it.

It’s clear to me that neither 47 nor Musk care about the people of this country. They don’t care about democracy. They care about power. And if people hand it to them — out of fear, ignorance, or blind loyalty — they’ll take it.

I hear people say, “Let’s give him a chance to fix things.” But as someone who’s worked as a fixer, I can tell you: this isn’t fixing. This is tearing down. This is "rape and pillage" behavior. And the saddest part is how many people are okay with giving up things like freedom of speech, due process, and the rule of law — just to avoid facing what's really going on.

Some folks are just trying to survive, and I get that. But a lot of people don’t want to look too closely. It’s hard to change the way you see the world when it feels like everything’s shifting around you.

The idea I’ve been stuck on is this: 47 is pretending to try to fix things. But he’s doing it in ways that are legally sloppy — on purpose. Because he knows the courts will stop him. Doing it the right way would take real effort and responsibility — and that’s never been his thing. When he fails (and he will fail), he’ll just blame everyone else.

Because nothing is ever his fault.

What I really don’t get is this: I hear his supporters talk all the time about personal responsibility. They demand it in their own lives. But when it comes to 47? He gets a free pass. That just doesn’t make any sense to me.


Wednesday, April 23, 2025

Thirty-One Years


Joe and I are celebrating our thirty-first wedding anniversary today. Our morning started in a way that feels perfectly us—Joe headed out to help a neighbor with a tricky door lock, and I went over to Megan’s for some Oliver snuggles and smiles (the very best kind). When I got back home, Joe was getting ready to leave for work.

Before he left, he kissed me goodbye, wished me a happy anniversary, and tried to apologize for not "doing something special." I reminded him, as I often do, that he is something special—every single day. For thirty-one years, he’s been a steady, loving friend and partner. And truly, that’s more than enough.

I’d choose his daily affection and quiet acts of love over a bouquet of flowers, a fancy dinner, or a romantic getaway any day. Every now and then, Joe will look at me and say something that isn’t true: “I know I’m not romantic.” But to me, nothing is more romantic than the way he rubs my feet when they ache, helps me put lotion on my back, or pulls me close for early morning snuggles.

For thirty-one years, he’s filled our life with kisses and hugs—first thing in the morning, last thing at night, and plenty of times in between. He still holds my hand when we walk together.

And beyond all the quiet romance, Joe is an incredible listener. I can talk to him about anything. He’s got the kindest heart for people who need help—especially if it involves fixing or building something (which, of course, he’ll share what he learned from the experience with me later).

I’m grateful every single day to be married to Joe Coehlo.



Tuesday, April 22, 2025

Earth Day


Earth Day started in the USA, but now it's celebrated all around the world. The first Earth Day was on April 22, 1970, and it was created by a U.S. senator named Gaylord Nelson to raise awareness about pollution and protecting nature. Millions of people in the United States joined in that first year.

Since then, Earth Day has grown into a global event. Today, people in more than 190 countries take part in Earth Day activities like planting trees, cleaning up parks and beaches, and learning how to protect the environment. So even though it began in the USA, Earth Day now belongs to everyone on the planet.

Earth Day reminds us that even small actions can make a big difference. Recycling, saving water, and using less electricity are all ways to help the Earth. When we take care of nature, we make the world a better place for ourselves and for future generations. Every day can be Earth Day if we all do our part.


Monday, April 21, 2025

Break Time!

I am on sensory overload today. Five minutes into my daily ten-minute meditation I fell asleep. It feels like too many thoughts running through my head and this makes it difficult to write. Though writing has been known to sooth me. 

When I feel overloaded it is difficult for me to read, watch a movie, or listen to a podcast. The house and laundry are clean or I would try cleaning to calm my tired brain. There are two books on my bedside table I may try to tackle. One is Shel Silverstein poems because they are funny and the other is Liza Donnelly's Funny Ladies: The New Yorkers Greatest Women Cartoonists. My hope is that between the two books my mind will get hijacked with humor instead of focusing on what is happening in the White House today. 

Going to leave you with a meme to contemplate.







Sunday, April 20, 2025

Easter Sunday

 


When I was growing up, my parents didn’t celebrate Easter for its religious significance. But since I went to church with neighbors, I learned about the meaning of the holiday. Joe’s Catholic family, on the other hand, always celebrated Easter.

Since our marriage (in just three days, we’ll celebrate thirty-one years), we’ve only celebrated the secular parts of the day—especially while the kids were still at home.

Today was a quiet one at our house. I took some time to reflect on all of my blessings. At the very top of that list is my life with Joe Coehlo. I’m also deeply grateful for our daughter, for dear friends, and for family.

I wish for you a long list of gratitude, too.

Saturday, April 19, 2025

For What It's Worth

Saint Paul, Minnesota April 19, 2025

Blount County, TN 4.19.2025

Big or small communities, protesters came out all over America today to show their support for Democracy 
and the rule of law.

FOR WHAT IT's WORTH

Song by Buffalo Springfield ‧ 1966

Written by: Stephen Stills

There's something happening hereBut what it is ain't exactly clearThere's a man with a gun over thereTelling me I got to beware
I think it's time we stopChildren, what's that sound?Everybody look, what's going down?
There's battle lines being drawnNobody's right if everybody's wrongYoung people speaking their mindsGetting so much resistance from behind
It's time we stopHey, what's that sound?Everybody look, what's going down?
What a field day for the heat (Ooh ooh ooh)A thousand people in the street (Ooh ooh ooh)Singing songs and they carrying signs (Ooh ooh ooh)Mostly say, "Hooray for our side" (Ooh ooh ooh)
It's time we stopHey, what's that sound?Everybody look, what's going down?
Paranoia strikes deepInto your life it will creepIt starts when you're always afraidStep out of line, the men come and take you away
We better stopHey, what's that sound?Everybody look, what's going down?
You better stopHey, what's that sound?Everybody look, what's going down?
You better stopNow, what's that sound?Everybody look, what's going down?
You better stopChildren, what's that sound?Everybody look, what's going down?

****

The song For What It's Worth was written in just 15 minutes by Stephen Stills. It was inspired by anti-loitering laws and the Sunset Strip Riots of 1966. It feels like a fitting soundtrack for what ICE is doing under this regime.

Joe and I didn’t end up going to the planned protest in Albertville today. We’re planning to go next week instead. We had to run an errand and drove past the protest site—gave a thumbs up to the folks who were able to be there.

Reports are coming in from all over the country: 3.1 million people showed up at more than 700 events. That’s a strong turnout, especially considering the April 5th protest brought in 5.2 million at 1,300 events—and this weekend is Easter. Sounds like some smaller towns saw two to three times the turnout compared to earlier this month.

One of my cousins joined about 80 people in Wauseon, Ohio, even though it was pouring rain. Around 10 to 15 MAGA folks showed up with their big flags. I guess they still think bigger flags make you more patriotic. My cousin’s signs read: “Impeach and Imprison Trump – He's a Crime Against Humanity” and “I Just Hope We Have 2026 Elections – Don’t Trust Trump, He’s a Felon.” He also said a younger woman rolled down her window and accused them of being paid protestors who were bused in. He just laughed.

Anyway, I’m really proud of him for showing up.

Sharing a message from Alt National Park Service: From where we’re standing, this weekend was an even bigger success. Events took place right where they were needed most bringing folks together in communities that needed a little extra light and a reminder they’re not alone.




Friday, April 18, 2025

Good Friday (Our Version)


Caleb and Charlotte were out of school today because of Good Friday, so Joe and I picked them up at 10:00 a.m. and took them to the Monticello Community Center to swim. They played in the water for over two hours with another boy around their age. It was fun to watch the three of them laughing, splashing, and coming up with all sorts of games. The longest one was a ball keep-away game. Charlotte held her own against the two boys and kept the game going with a big grin on her face.

After swimming, we took the grandkids to Perkins for lunch. Joe, Caleb, and I all chose pancakes, while Charlotte went with her favorite—macaroni and cheese. Our plan was to get them back home between 3:15 and 3:30 p.m. On the way, Caleb asked if we could stop at the Lake Rebecca playground. We made a quick stop, and they spent about 20 minutes climbing the structures and running around in the grass.

We dropped them off right at 3:30, right on schedule, and then Joe and I headed home, ready for a well-earned nap. Watching them throughout the day brought so much joy—it was heartwarming to see how naturally they entertained themselves, how freely they moved, and how much they appreciated being active. There’s something special about seeing kids so present in the moment, fully engaged in simple fun. It reminded me how valuable these kinds of days are—not just for them, but for us too.

Thursday, April 17, 2025

Look Ma, No Cavities!


For someone who doesn’t go to a daily job, I manage to stay pretty busy. This morning started with dental appointments for Joe and me at 10:00 AM—which meant getting up two hours earlier than usual. After we got back to Saint Michael, I dropped Joe off so he could get ready for work, and I ran a quick errand.

Once I got home, it was time for laundry. I also had my monthly chat with my cousin Eleanor, which is always something I look forward to. All in all, a good day.

This afternoon, a strong rainstorm blew through. It was so windy that the rain was actually coming down sideways. As Eleanor joked, the silver lining was that the windows got a free wash!

A few hours later, the wind had completely died down. Late in the afternoon, I watched some neighborhood cats and rabbits playing in the yard. May 1st marks the start of garden planting season, so we’ve stocked up on a spray that’s safe for people and animals but apparently smells terrible to rabbits and deer. It’s also time to fertilize the lawn.

Now, I’m off to tackle the thirty-plus emails that piled up throughout the day.

Bring On the Woke

Win McNamee/Getty Images (January 6, 2022 - note the Q attire) Megan, my daughter, recommended I watch the documentary Q: Into the Storm (a...