At some point on our recent trip, I developed a sharp
shooting pain in my right thigh. As a result, I have not been able to walk my steps
goal everyday which makes me feel grumpy. Today, I saw a chiropractor and am so
happy that he identified a hip flexor issue. I had a 20-minute electrical treatment
with a hot pad and an adjustment. Armed with an exercise that I am doing every
thirty minutes during waking hours, I am feeling tons better.
I am a bit achy, but I have not had the sharp pain I was
feeling before the visit. The chiropractor said the car trip was partially responsible
and that my walking so much prior to the recent trip may also have contributed.
We are getting me healed and then I can return to my daily walking with the
understanding that I will slow down by adding 100 steps a week instead of per
day to my goal. The chiropractor I saw today explained that the reason one
should do the stretches recommended is because the treatment by a chiropractor usually
lasts about 1 ½ hours before the body wants to return to the state it was in.
It appears that I was also walking with a slight forward
bent. That was my body and brain’s way of compensating for the pain. So, I am
standing tall now and I love the feeling – I think I regained my ½” of my 5’ 2 ½”
height.
The other good thing I did for myself today was to call
Teachers on Call and let them know I wanted to be removed from their substitution
list. When they asked me if I just didn’t want to work with them, I explained
that it wasn’t them. It was me. I went over my concerns and anxiety around all
the rules for student engagement and how fearful I was that I would accidentally
do or say something that would cause problems for Teachers on Call and for me. The
woman I talked to said she understood and would have my name removed from their
records by Monday.
For now, I am going to work on healing, physically, and
improving my overall stamina. From there I can decide if I want to find a
volunteer position in our community. I have not been bored in retirement. Then
again, I am not sure I’ve had time to be bored. Between getting ready for the
move to Minnesota, our three road trips this year, and getting settled into our
temporary living quarters, I haven’t had long stretches of time to fill. I sure
do like reading a book or watching a show whenever I want. I also like the freedom
I have when booking appointments for self-care. No more trying to balance a
work life with my personal life. It is very freeing!
Getting out of bed in the morning when I want, taking a nap
whenever, and going to bed later than 8:30pm are all great as well. If I wake
up in the middle of the night and want to read until I fall back asleep I do it
without worrying that I won’t be rested enough in the morning.
Going into retirement, I wasn’t sure how it would work out
for me. I have worked for so long and being a creature of habit, I thought I’d
miss working. Nope. Not one bit. Retirement 1, Employment 0.
Hi Beth, glad you are taking care of you! After Bill passed away I tried a few things to keep busy, volunteered at the church, checked into a few clubs, etc. I also discovered that I dont like to have to be obligated to do any of those things. I like staying up late and sleeping in, if I cant sleep I read also. Its all about taking care of you and doing what makes you happy. I like being available if friends or family call and want to go to lunch, or whatever without having to reschedule things. I keep my dr. appointments and work around them if I need to. But I agree with you, its nice not to have any obligations and not have to juggle your life when retired. Proud of you...Enjoy and take care of your health, which sounds like you are finding out its very rewarding.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the comment Max! After years of taking care of others first and me second - it feels like a luxury to have time to take care of just Joe and me. Like you, I would always be there for a friend or family member. Right now, I am going to enjoy this season of my life.
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